Are Latinas REALLY Attracted to Average Foreign Men?
So you want to be one of the guys who’s dating Latinas? And the most beautiful ones at that. But there’s just one problem. Beautiful people tend to date other beautiful people and you’ve looked in the mirror. You might not exactly be a schlub, but you’re not exactly a male model either.
But just because you’re not six-foot-two with a chiseled jawline and abs for days doesn’t mean you can’t land an attractive Latina woman. Sure, you might not like your odds and those odds may be stacked against you, but anything’s possible. Look at the lottery, there’s a 1 in 14 million chance that a person will win, but people win the lottery all the time.
Your chances may not be as dire as that but you’re not exactly optimistic about them either. But there are a few things you can do to sway the odds in your favor. Being an average guy doesn’t mean that you can’t be a little extraordinary in some respects.
Learn to speak Spanish
A lot of men all over the world want to date beautiful Latina women. The thing is that they don’t always get to date those women. Part of it is geography. Most Latina women are in the Americas and a lot of the men who want to date them aren’t. This geographical disparity also means that there’s going to be some language barriers.
Most average guys around the world don’t know how to speak Spanish. They don’t need to. Spanish is the second most common native tongue in the world, but it’s widely distributed with most speakers being found in the Americas.
Now, if you are an American, then that’s already an advantage. Spanish is widely spoken in the United States and is an elective language in many public school systems. This makes acquiring some Spanish language skills relatively easy for a guy who lives in the Americas.
So knowing a bit of Spanish already gets you a leg up when compared to other men.
But knowing Spanish, even if you don’t know enough of it that you can read Don Quixote without translation, is going to give even an average guy a leg up.
Get your grooming on point
A lot of guys regularly shave their facial hair. That’s a pretty average thing for guys to do, but there’s a whole world to grooming that a lot of guys aren’t aware of. Like moisturizer and eye cream.
But adding a few things to your grooming can help an average guy out. It’s not going to turn him into a smoldering romance novel hero, but a little grooming can help a regular guy into a better version of regular.
If you want to get yourself on the high end of average, you can try some grooming. Maybe some eye cream that’ll lessen whatever puffiness there is. Maybe try shaving in a different way. Or maybe not shaving at all. Some girls like a guy with a full beard or some stubble.
Another thing that you can try is moisturizer to make your skin look younger and fresher, give it more of a dewy look so it seems like you know how to properly take care of yourself.
You don’t need to hire a stylist and change your look up completely, but you do need to give off the impression that you know how to take care of yourself.
Understand her culture
Most people will have some understanding of their own culture. Most people will never travel beyond their borders and live and die within driving distance of where they were born. Which means that they’re not going to be knowledgeable about other cultures.
Now, Latin America is a very diverse place with a lot of different cultures, but there’s going to be some similarities thanks to the common colonizer that was Spain. Things like how Catholicism is going to have a strong cultural influence and a common language.
So learn the common threads that link Latin American countries, because that’s going to give you an advantage when you go and date women from the region.
Dance up a storm
A person who can move can dance. A person who can hear the music can dance. Actually, even a deaf person can dance because hearing music and feeling music are different things.
Now, with salsa, mambo, merengue, and a whole host of others, Latin America is the birthplace of many styles of dance. So you could say that dancing is kind of an important part of Latin American culture.
You might not be adroit when it comes to the Latin styles of dance. But the thing is that you can learn to be somewhat competent in them. You may not become good enough to win professional competitions, but an average guy can learn enough that he looks like he knows what he’s doing on the dance floor.
Try to relax
A normal guy is going to feel a little nervous when meeting a beautiful woman. That’s a perfectly natural reaction to a beautiful woman. But the thing is that being overtly nervous around a beautiful woman isn’t going to endear yourself to her.
So you’re going to want to relax when you do go meet a beautiful woman in Latin America. Yeah, you’re an ordinary guy and she’s a goddess among mere mortals, but you can’t be a nervous wreck because that’s going to wreck your chances with her.
Look, the chances that an average guy is going to end up with an above average woman are low. Extraordinary people tend to gravitate towards other extraordinary people. But that doesn’t mean that an average guy can’t land an extraordinary woman. It’s just that he’s going to have to work a little harder and make a few adjustments. The chances are low. But they’re not zero.
